Non reserved train compartment..

Posted on January 25, 2012 by khushi

My mom is not well. Earlier, she used to atleast talk on the phone, but now, even that, she has stopped. :( I got restless on last Saturday. Wanted to talk or see her. And only option was to travel to her, to and fro on same day, Sunday. Thanks to hubby, he was ready to baby sit my 5 year old for a day. But, no time was left to reserve my seat?? How, I will travel in non reserved train compartment after 10 years??? Actually let me tell you, I get really scared , even to board in reserved compartment. Reasons are many, too many crowd on stations, too many in compartment too, stir so many questions in me. Would I be able to board train, in time, with little son and the bag? Would I be able to bring my son to reserved seats comfortably? Whether both seats will be adjacent one or again I have request people to exchange? Would I be able to find space to settle my bag? Would I be able to take my son to loo in over crowded reserved compartment, if required? .. list of these questions is endless.

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Fear!!

Posted on January 17, 2012 by khushi

I often used to wonder, how smart, kids are today. We were just dumb in comparison to them, in our childhood. Reasons could be many, media exposure, lot of care and attention in nuclear families, extra awareness of parents, too much competitions, stress to stand out in mass and so on. But to tackle their smartness, and handle them in balanced way, we parents need to learn a lot. Every day, we get new challenges to manage our parenthood, well. Its difficult, rather seems impossible.. but no way out.. we can’t give up… :( we need to fight with the fear.. fear of our children as well, fear of ours.

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Body Language II

Posted on January 13, 2012 by khushi

My earlier post on this subject, that is, body language was on lighter note. Lets try to find out how serious is, impact of the body language.

When you look to a person, standing firm, holding head high, broad and straight shoulders, shine in eyes, no fear or confusion on face, confidence dripping from toe to head, you get impressed, you get attracted, aren’t you? You will definitely give him your attention or priorty. Yes, one has to work out a lot inside as well outside to achieve this kind of body language or say persona.

Now, think of a situation like, you are dead scared of giant dog of your colony, and it is your bad day, and that dog

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Body language!!

Posted on January 12, 2012 by khushi

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Yeah! not only your mouth or say tongue :P , but even your eyes can talk, many times, your hands too, so your face and say whole body.. so we called it as body language. I think body language is a language, that one understands with or without hearing anything through expressions of our body parts. Correct me if I am wrong. Your standing posture, siting one too, looking to people, everything is part of this body language. And yes, without hearing.. that is silence, it is most effective. Sigh!! Its tough.. to read and write, in this langauge.. lolz!

 

 

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Confused!!

Posted on January 6, 2012 by khushi

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I get confused, whenever I have to choose health drink or cloths, toys or books for my child. Problem is not “many options” for these things, but how media and manufactures, play with my emotions. :( For my child I want everything to be best. Every mother does want so, for her child. But who knows what is DHA in health drinks, is it really there in health drink or which health drink, really helps in raising height of my baby?? Not only I am confused about choice of these things, at

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Jigsaw

Posted on January 4, 2012 by khushi

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I still remember I was asked to fit one piece in jigsaw puzzle in my school admission interview. I couldn’t really fixed it, but yes, my efforts were appreciated and I got admission. :)

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Resolutions!!

Posted on December 29, 2011 by khushi

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It was 2.10 in noon, I decided to start my studies at 2.30. 20 minutes!! let me watch TV. :) I glued more 5 minutes with TV. Ok, let me start studies at 2.45. I wandered here and there, searching some snacks for me. At 2.45, I felt bit lazy.. let me take a short nap of 15 minutes, will start at 3.00.. this was one, NO, I mean many.. lolz, of afternoon of my preparation leave before exams, during my school days.

 

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Best teachers

Posted on December 27, 2011 by khushi

 

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Our children are best teachers for us. At least, I am learning a lot from my 5 years old. How innocent they are, and so forgive and forget their fights in few seconds. How easily they accept the things they face in their life.

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Worries..

Posted on December 23, 2011 by khushi

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Worries are like to pry into death bed..

And see, how brave I am to lay myself on it off and on it.. worrying most of the time… lolz!!

Yeah! My mind again is in split. Should I start working again or not?

This time, it is not a woman in me, who wanted her identity. This time, its mere a factor, so called, crisis, which drives women to work in 90% of families. Yeah, I was aware of this factor, before leaving my work. But again.. when fact become reality of your life.. you react different, very different from, when you had just thought of it as a fact. :) Or say, predicted facts has raised to unpredicted high proportions.. and I lost my balance again. So, I am worried.

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Personality Grooming!!

Posted on December 21, 2011 by khushi

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Here is one more confusion.. one more dilemma.. one more option to think about, whether my 5 years old really need it. After drawing classes, dance class, phonics class, mental maths class…the list is endless. I heard of personality grooming classes for kids. Do kids have personality required to be groomed?? I wonder!! :(

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