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Temple or no temple??

Mahashivratri… last year I lost my mom that day..and penned my last blogpost after that.. then never felt like writing, though pushed myself hard many times..

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When does soul enter the body? when doc make you hear baby’s heart beat in the womb or when baby ready to come out in this world?

Kirti Mandalaywala ?Khushi ……. There is nothing like soul & hence there is no question of soul entering the body or leaving the body when the person dies….. If the soul leaves the body, where does it stay? or where does it go and park itself? The concept of soul is all humbug which we have been told from time immemorial and is being passed on from generation to generation….. What we call as mind is the output of neural activity of the brain. That is why when we say the person is brain dead, his neural activity stops, he is not able to think, nor able to function any activity though the body may be alive because the heart is beating and the heart is pumping blood and circulating to other parts of the body.If the leg / hand moves, it is the brain which gives instruction to the motor nerves to move.

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It is difficult at times to handle emotional problems of kids. I often face this, as my son is very sensitive as well stubborn.

A week before the closure of his pre primary school, I got an invitation card, for the celebration of grand parents day and convocation on last day of the school. The real problem was, this year, as my son’s teachers were preparing all students, for sanskrit shlokas recitation and some dance and song items, he was very much excited about it. I asked my father in law, if he can attend the function, he politely refused, as he was not keeping well.

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I know, its my problem, weakness on my part, that I can’t stand 6 kind of people around. But I really want to be one of these kind, as I always found myself in misery of the mystery that why are like that and them in state of happiness .. with “who cares!” attitude. I envy!

One kind is, people who are selfish and self centered. They think nothing; say nothing and so do nothing about other people around. Other means their family members too. Cool Ahh!!

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I am trying best to come out of the mess, so called death rites has made in my brain, but feeling really helpless.. just can’t come out of it. Can anybody justify these rituals and help me coming out of it?

My younger sister was law was not allowed to see dead body of my mother, as she is pregnant??? She was really upset about this. Can one justify this? One side we try best to keep a pregnant lady in good spirits and other side made her upset, leave her life time regret.

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Difference between marriage and death ceremony?? You might thinking Khushi is out of her mind today, asking such a stupid question. How can one compare happy instance like marriage with sad instance like death? But, the fact is I asked the same question to self, after following 12 days of rituals after death of my mother. 6-7 months before, I had closely observed my youngest brother’s marriage ceremony, and I felt, there was not much of difference.

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Everybody know, how blessed are our houses in Metro like Mumbai, no balconis, not enough space even to breath properly, as it is densely packed with necessary or unnecessary items, no proper ventilation, as even windows are small, one cannot keep doors open because of privacy and security reasons. Sigh! blessings to my house are endless..and one of these is, that I have to

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The acomodador or giving up point: there is always an in our lives that is responsible for failing us to progress: a trauma, a particularly bitter defeat, a disappointment in love, even a victory that we did not quite understand, can make cowards of us and prevent us from moving on. as part of the process of increasing his hidden powers, the shaman must free himself from the giving up point and, to do so, he must review his whole life and find out where it occurred. (courtesy : From “The Zahir” by Paulo Coelho)

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Yeah again these karmas hit me hard. This time, though I am not suffering much, but can’t help to keep worrying about people who are suffering, as I love them a lot. I just couldn’t manage to keep away a thought or a question that “A prolonged ailment of one person is a reason for sufferings of all other family members or say care takers. Does ailment is fruit of his karmas or fruits of karmas of care takers, as they suffer more than one, who is ill?”

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