Today in the morning, one of school friend called up. While talking about her new married life, she all of sudden slipped in the past. She said, she is angry on her Ex, his rejection had driven her in unwanted marriage and then divorce, that lead her to life of single mother, struggling all the way alone. Now again she got somebody to share her life and she is really in love with him.

I asked her, why you are angry on your ex? Rather you should be thankful to him. He led you to the partner, she really loves and that struggle after his rejection made her a celebrity. She is a TV actress now. Forgive and forget!! If you really want to enjoy whatever you have right now. Easier said than done Khushi!! Uuuhhhh!! I know but I succeed partly in my case. Yipppeeeeeeee!!

When I look back, I really feel that whatever happened in the past, happened for my good. May be I am not successful in career, may be I am not leading so called happy life as my friends are doing, may be I am not with person, whom I dreamt to be with, but I am happy that Thanks God!! I am not with him. I really mean it.

I just read on one of media site, one guy was really upset, had written that he hate one who tell him to forget the past. Well, I will say, don’t go in literal meaning of it. It doesn’t mean and it is not possible to erase your past which led you to your present and also can affect your future. It doesn’t mean you forget and repeat those mistakes again. It meant to say, you just accept it. It means you forgive yourself for your mistakes in the past, so you can make up for it in present as well in future. When one is in relation with other person, say your mother, father or a friend, sibling, wife or children, that relations works on adjustments, that is you or your relative forgive and forget lot of mistakes and carry on, to make it a strong and successful relation. Why not to make your relation with yourself same?? Why you cannot forgive and forget yourself to make your life a real success!! It is as simple as it. Nop?? I know, it is not, but let us try.

A new year resolution??

Cheers!!
Happy New Year!!!

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Tilak Sarkar :
Researches have found that the ability to forgive is an important characteristic of high performance teams. Mahatma Gandhi recognized this when he said, “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.”

To forgive is… to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you. By forgiving others as well as yourself, you release all the negative wasteful energy trapped inside you, weighing you down.

This is why I repeatedly watch Forest Gump.

All bad karmas result from ignorance, from inadequate understanding of ourselves and our surroundings. One has to keep journeying onward.

Two sadhus, avowed ascetic saw a woman in pain and distress, trying to cross a shallow river with no boat service around.
They deided to carry her on their shoulders. After that lady had left, one of the sadhus kept on repenting – “I have broken my monastic vow and I have touched a woman even if it is to help her cross the river. I have committed sin.”

The other sadhu replied, “I carried her then and I am no longer carrying her while you are still carrying her.”

Past’s significance is in giving us the rght experience so we can hold it up as a torch to see the way forward. It’s not meant to be mill stone to be worn around the neck. Past was important but looking to past is hindrance. The moment one accepts that the life’s purpose is spiritual, lot of difficulties melt away.

I aspire to spiritual wisdom but I am a normal man with all my frailties. But that does not stop me from aspiring for spiritual perfection. The caterpillar must dream to be a butterfly someday. Every man, every human encounter, every moment is a step on this ladder and must be seen as one.

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