The other day one of friend asked me, why human relationship being termed as “chemistry” and why not any other subject like literature, physics or biology, why only chemistry. ??

Interesting question, No?
All relationships are based on emotions, and so the literature. Emotions are based on thoughts and causes certain hormones to secrete from our pituitary/ thyroid gland. What are hormones?? Chemicals again. So, when I talk about body, glands and hormones, I think I am talking about biology, which I proved depend on chemicals so chemistry. Now, about physics of relationship. Think of physical appearance. Have you heard beauty lies in viewers eyes?? So, again, our emotions decide physical appearance and also length and breadth of the relationships. Hey! that mean even physics of relations depends on chemicals. Did I prove, all relationships are decided by chemical composition of hormones, triggered by our emotions ? When One is depressed, medicines (chemicals again) are given to correct outflow of hormones (chemicals) causing that depression. So it is all CHEMISTRY!!! Cheers!!

But the next question came, why certain elements combined to compose a molecule?? Well I can explain the logic behind this, its valence electrons of an element decide, it can bond with which other elements (again depends on valence electron of the connecting element). Like two element of hydrogen to one of oxygen to make water element (H20). But I cannot explain what is valence of a human that decides the bonding with others’. I say it “click” or unexplained CHEMISTRY. Sometimes, one like/hate other person in first glance, I call it clicked / unclicked. This bonding/non-bonding and so chemistry behind the “click” is unexplainable. Though logically emotions are extension of thoughts but it prove vice versa in many cases. Sometimes, one’s mind says, why you like that person? He is not good, but your emotions towards him are so strong that all logics saying that HE IS BAD, just not work. And so is true for extremely negative emotions, that is, hatred.

We often talk about relationships between two persons, as chemistry between those two. When two are in love , chemistry is called GOOD., otherwise BAD Chemistry or incompatibility or…just not done. With some of my friend, I just never think before talking any thing in this world, though I hardly know him/her, but many times even relations of 2-3 decades, not generate that chemistry or say trust or relation.

Anyway, till now, my chemistry with my friends is going great. So cheers!!

Happy valentine’s Day!! Or say Happy GOOD CHEMISTRY Day!!!

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