I was born, a woman was there to hold me – my mother
I grew as a child, a woman was there to care for me and play – my sister
I went to school, a woman was there to help me learn – my teacher
I became depressed whenever I lost, a woman was there to offer a shoulder – my girl friend
I needed company, compatibility and love, a great woman was there for me- my wife
I became tough, a woman was there to melt me – my daughter
When I die, a woman is there to absorb me in – my motherland
If you are a man value every woman and if you are woman, be proud of yourself.

The other day, I got this sms on my cell with title story of man. I am confused. Is it a story of a man or a woman? And if both share same story, why most of the time, instead of happy ending, things just go haywire? When both, man and woman know, they compliment each other, can bring balance in life with help and support of each other, why and how they lose the balance so often?

Some of common instances are, when man and woman forget and extend their limits and try to occupy each other’s space or just ignore each other’s space. Many times, unfulfilled dreams bring frustration and so unbalance. If one thinks, other is burden or thinks, he or she is superior, balance lost!! and so peace and harmony from the life. Simple chemical equation of life works fine, when both sides are balanced.

Though it sounds simple, but again today’s stressful life making it really difficult. Though people are aware, where they are wrong for the unbalance in life, still couldn’t correct, and just feel helpless, when things goes out of hands. Result is, exponential raise in number of divorces, so break up of families, and undisciplined and emotionally depressed children. In short, the structure of society go haywire.

Couldn’t we take a break from fast moving life, and think that whether we are doing justice with the precious gift given by the god, ie, our life? The small thought process and will move us to .. real happiness… could make sharing great fun … between the man and woman.

Cheers!!

Comments on Facebook :

Amelia Handa: Excellent Khushi. No one can put in a better way than this.

Tilak Sarkar :Relationship is most fulfilling when we understand the big secret in it – that every true relationship is a relationship between souls. To quote Sri Aurobindo on this – “In their best moments, both man and woman can forget their difference… of sex, but it reappears at the slightest provocation; the woman feels she is a woman, the man knows he is a man and the quarrel is revived indefinitely in one form or another, open or veiled, and perhaps all the more bitter the less it is admitted. And one wonders whether it will not be so until there are no longer any men or women, but living souls expressing their identical origin in sexless bodies.

Dave White: Baeautiful- Are you a bloger by profession?

Khushi Keswani: ‎@Amelia : Thnx! @Dave : Should I take as compliment? Thnx

Khushi Keswani:‎@Tilak: even if we can’t reach the level of spirit, as you said, just a soul, forgetting the difference of sexl, with keeping differences between sex in mind, still we can work out relationships, but again for that you need to keep in mind ” we compliment eachother, we are nothing without eachother.”

David Cary: This is truly awesome! Great thoughts! We get into imbalance when one tries to control the other, and the need for control, I think, comes from a lack of trust.

Jan McCollum Ray: This is so very good! There is no dominance needed when both work together. They both become as one, and work as one.

Khushi Keswani: ‎@David : very true. Trust, on self first and then on partner. @Jan : Agree, remember “together” always.

Tilak Sarkar :Let me put it this way. The distinctions between genders have been always exaggerated by the ‘civilized society’. The stereotyping o genders and expectation of gender roles have interfered with individual autonomy and forced individuals to …straitjacket themselves which is far from natural and self-honest behavior. There are several myths spun around gender characteristics. I have often heard from women as well as men – “Women are easily given to envy.” But that is not true – deep blue envy in men is as common. There are a few unique characteristics to each gender triggered by body’s chemical reactions but they do not impact much things that are of fundamental importance like values. To feel some kind of pressure to behave in a certain way because of one being of certain gender is self-limiting. The very foundation of any relationship of any kind is pure friendship which accepts the other person with all the limitations. It is almost like our acceptance of ourselves. It stems from the insight that one soul dwells in two physical frames.

Liara Covert: What you think and feel awakens yo uto what is and what is not.

Khushi Keswani: ‎Liara Covert: Sorry???

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